
Who Might You Be?
Who Might You Be? – A Tale in Tangrams
Robert Henderson
A & U Children’s, 2025
32pp., hbk., RRP $A24.99
9781760526276
How often do we ask a child, “How was your day?” only to be met with a blank stare?
Not because they ignoring us but because it (and they) have been so many things, it’s hard to articulate something concise.
Today, I am this and tomorrow I’m that.
Today, I’m a tiger! Tomorrow, a bat.
By Saturday, I will have been all of that.
So … who might you be?
In this quirky rhyme-story by a creator who describes himself as “”a prolific non-graduate from a range of prestigious Australian Universities, failing to complete courses in areas as diverse as Media Studies (twice), English Literature, and Religion” the child is represented by a tangram – a collection of seven different-shaped pieces than when put together form a square, or a tiger or a cat, a grumpy bear or a host of other things, depending on how they are twisted and turned, flipped, rotated, positioned and placed but always connected.

Taking those seven pieces and putting them together in all sorts of imaginative ways, some with outlines overlaid so the objects are more distinguishable, Henderson has created a story that shows young readers how different events, expectations and emotions can impact on us and transform us into being lots of different beings as we move through not just the day, but life generally, even though we are still that one “square” at heart, regardless of the thousands of pictures that can be formed. The message is reinforced by using the tangram as the narrator. Some days we can be fierce tigers because of what’s going on in our lives, and then, the next day, a cat. There are “plenty of have-beens and goings-to-be” as events impact our moods and emotions and such transformations are a universal, natural and inevitable part of being human and making us individuals.
From a very early age, we encourage our littlies to put together pieces of puzzles, increasingly complex as their visual acuity and perception develops, their patience grows and their interest is maintained as they build pieces into a whole. and so using that physical activity as an analogy to help them understand that just as their physical body can change shape so can their inner thoughts, emotions and feelings makes the concept easier to grasp. Ultimately, while “me” might seem like “we”, it’s all those “wes” that make us “mes” – and regardless of how we might be turned, twisted, flipped or rotated by others or ourselves, we can always return to our original form.
The final challenge of tracing and cutting their own tangram to see what they can make – and an internet search will yield hundreds of possibilities for those who are initially bamboozled – just reinforces the notion of individuality and uniqueness, no matter how similar we seem.
Unique, fun and funny, this is one for those who feel they don’t fit and need affirmation that they do – no matter what shape they might be today.