Stand Proud
Nicho Hynes & Marlee Silva
Blak Douglas
Puffin, 2024
32pp., hbk., RRP $A19.99
9781761341335
As a kid, Nicho knows a few things to be true.
Everyone calls him Nicho, instead of ‘Nicholas’.
He loves the sport of rugby league.
And he is Aboriginal – but he hasn’t always known what that means.
Then one day at school, Nicho sees his friend covered in white paint and practising a special dance.
Nicho asks him to teach him the dance too . . . and that’s when everything changes.
Even though the 2024 Rugby League season has past and preparations for the next one yet to begin, there will still be many young children who have been inspired by those they have deemed to be their heroes and who aspire to emulate their prowess by practising their skills daily. For many, that hero will be Nicho Hynes from the Cronulla Sharks and so they will be delighted to read this story of his life, although they might be surprised that it is not so much about his success on the football field as it is about finding who he is and where he has come from.
Because his mum, an Aboriginal, was one of the Stolen Generation, taken from her family as a little girl, she lost her indigenous identity and although she always told Nicho of his Aboriginal heritage and to be loud and proud about it, she had lost all the stories of her heritage to pass on, and so Nicho was caught in no-man’s-land, particularly when his schoolmates didn’t believe him because his skin was so light. He didn’t know how to be “a loud, proud, blackfella” so while he felt something ignite inside when he saw his friend Bruce dancing on Harmony Day, it wasn’t until he followed his rugby league dream, idolising Johnathan Thurston and meeting more and more blackfellas who also played, that he started to feel like he was with family and that he belonged.
And the rest, as they say, is history … through opening up to those around him and being open to hearing and learning what he needed to know about his heritage and inheritance, he really began to thrive and not only share his story but, just as Johnathan Thurston had become his idol, so he himself became an idol for those following his footsteps – so much so that he was awarded the 2024 Ken Stephen Medal Man of the Year for his outstanding mental health advocacy and leadership in the Indigenous community.
The publisher’s blurb says that this is a story about “Nicho Hynes, who grew up to find his passion when he found his people” but it is also a story for anyone who feels that they are out of step with those around them, whether that be driven by race, culture, religion, gender, or neurology, encouraging them to continue seeking not only their own identity but also others with whom they feel most comfortable. By telling his story to his close friend Marlee Silva, this becomes an opportunity for others who may also feel lost to find the courage to speak up, to seek and find their way and their particular “tribe”. Hynes is a role model far beyond the boundaries and goalposts of the footy field.